Content note: This post explores trauma, abuse, PTSD, and dissociation. In the three years since I first wrote about my #SpookyFemme identity, a lot has changed. I fell in love, started a new job, moved from North Carolina to Massachusetts for that love, moved yet again when that love turned into abuse, came to some…Continue Reading “The Power of Spooky Femme, Part 2: Spooky Evolution”

Content note: This post contains general, non-specific mentions of trauma. This post contains affiliate links. Sex toys can be powerful tools for survivors to use to access pleasure and explore our bodies and sexualities again after experiencing trauma. Devastatingly, for far too many of us, sex and pleasure are left out of traditional narratives that…Continue Reading “Using Sex Toys to Heal from Trauma: A Guide for Survivors”