I’ve been meaning to write this piece for a long time. So today for Smutathon seems like as good a time as any! I need to start by admitting something that doesn’t make me look good. When I was younger, I engaged in a lot of slut-shaming. I held a very, very strong belief that…Continue Reading “Unlearning Sex Negativity by Coffee & Kink”
Ahhhh, Fetlife. Love it or hate it, the “Facebook of kink” is still the absolute number one place to be on the internet if you’re a kinky person who wants to interact with the BDSM and fetish community outside of your bedroom. But if you’re not careful, it can be a bit of a cesspit….Continue Reading “Ten Tips for Getting the Most Out of Fetlife by Coffee & Kink”
I manage not to blush too deeply as she starts ringing up my purchases. That’s progress, at least. I’ve been coming to this bookstore for the entire three years I’ve lived in this neighbourhood, and most of my purchases are from their incredibly well-stocked “romance” (read: erotic fiction) section. I don’t give a fuck when…Continue Reading “Erotic Literature [a smutty story by Coffee & Kink]”
“You have thrown it all away, Stand back, watch it burn – Just watch it all burn.” (“First Burn” – Lin Manuel Miranda) Close to a decade ago, two people I trusted hurt me very badly. The finer points of the story are unimportant; the Spark Notes version is that my partner and metamour (who…Continue Reading “Letting Go Is Not Forgiveness by Coffee & Kink”
It came to me, as the best ideas often do, at around 3 in the morning. I’d been wanting to do something in aid of charities and organisations that are important to me, but the idea of running a marathon, hiking a mountain or jumping off something high didn’t exactly appeal. I was lamenting to…Continue Reading “Why I Started Smutathon by Amy Norton”